Girl Fights

First, it must be acknowledged. I'm writing this IN FLIGHT on Virgin. Yes, they have wireless in flight. But for $9.95, I just HAD to. I mean, you would too, bitches.

Now, on to the topic at hand.

Meghann had a boy friend named Thomas. I didn't like him at first (I don't like anyone, we all know this), but for some reason, he grew on me. We started talking as they were dating, and getting to know each other. Definitely a good and nice guy.

Then they broke up. Meghann's not over him, and instead is jumping in the next sack she can, so that's her coping mechanism. Whatever. I've tried to steer her towards better coping mechanisms and alternatives, but I'm just giving up now.

She told me, she ultimatum-ed me. "Don't talk to him. He has his own friends. Why does he have to talk to my best friend?".

Maybe because I'm an understand person, and I feel that she dumped him rather cruelly. She was just like "it's over, end". Um, people have FEELINGS, and I'm starting to become aware of how selfish she truly is, and it's frustrating.

1) She NEVER turns off her iPhone and doesn't understand why it's rude.
2) She was two hours late yesterday, "But it was Sunday, my day off. You just don't understand since you don't work 9-5".

And the ultimatim of "don't talk to someone" I just can't handle. Sorry, you cannot tell me who I can and cannot speak with. It's hurtful. I'm frustrated with her flakiness. Being late and being on your iPhone 24/7 is a sign of serious disrespect to the people you're with, and she doesn't see a problem with it. Which is just the beginning of our cultural differences, but there is no reason to bring this to a snobbish level.

I just get frustrated with disoraganization and a lack of understanding of such. She appears to have no respect for others' time or devotion, and that seems to be the clincher or why I like talking to Thomas. He was raised right.

And you know what? Meghann's first reaction was "Oh, so you wanna sleep with him". Um, hello insecurity. I have no desire to sleep with him whatsoever. I just like him as a friend, that's all. But she's so insecure. And claims she's over him. Just because you rebound into other people's bed does not mean you're over someone. Sorry, it's just called coping through whoring.

*sigh* I was due for a rant. I hate flakiness. And it's just come to a grinding halt.

She's supposed to come to LA in 2 weeks. She mentioned she was re-thinking it, and frankly, I don't think it's a bad idea. Let her hang out with her friend Bob who she'll probably end up sleeping with anyway. I can't respect people who just sleep with people so rapidly. I mean, she's not a whore, she's not. But she jumps from bed to bed everytime she feels vulnerable. How about DEALING with life, and not sexing your way through it?

I love Meghann, I do. But I think we need a break until I either accept her lifestyle or she grows up a bit.